Flowers to future mother in law for mothers day??
June 12th, 2009My fiance and I decided to send Mothers Day cards and flowers as a couple. He said sending seperate cards seperated/divided us and that we were now getting married and should be doing things jointly, which I agree with.
Just wanted some others opinions, is it ok that I sent flowers to my future MIL and my mother from both my fiance and I? Or should I have waited until I am officially her DIL and he is my moms SIL?
Sending flowers is a wonderful jester and I agree with your fiance. Your a couple committed to each other so it's perfectly ok to send flowers together. It's never to early to build stronger bonds with your families.
June 12th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
I agree with the soon to be husband…why not…I don't see how this could be a "bad thing"…You sound like a great dil already…
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June 12th, 2009 at 10:02 pm
relax…its fine
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June 12th, 2009 at 10:41 pm
no i think this is great idea!it shows unity between the two of you and lets them know you are a couple and both are wanting to celebrate with them.
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June 12th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
Thats a good idea. I wish I had thought of it. Now I feel like I should have done the samething.
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June 12th, 2009 at 11:56 pm
just send her flowers as a couple and what the big deal
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June 13th, 2009 at 12:36 am
Sending flowers is a wonderful jester and I agree with your fiance. Your a couple committed to each other so it's perfectly ok to send flowers together. It's never to early to build stronger bonds with your families.
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June 13th, 2009 at 1:13 am
It is never a bad thing to do something that you mean from the heart.
If it was done to win "points" with either mom then no it should not have been done.
If it was done because you both truly just wanted to do something nice and kind for the women that love you it is not wrong!
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June 13th, 2009 at 1:58 am
No, your fiance had a great idea that saved you a little expense and showed unity of the two of you. I think it's great that your future MIL got flowers and a card from you as well as her son.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
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June 13th, 2009 at 2:41 am
I think that is a wonderful idea. Plus it will show everyone that you 2 are serious about getting married.
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June 13th, 2009 at 3:14 am
no i think thats is a good thing
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June 13th, 2009 at 3:50 am
Oh definitely send as a couple. He wants to with his mom and unless you think your mother would find it odd, then it shouldn't be a problem. It's nice to receive a mother's day sentiment from someone even if their not related to you and your pretty much already there.
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June 13th, 2009 at 4:34 am
Yes, wait til you are officially her DIL.
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June 13th, 2009 at 5:09 am
Of course not…..I think its a great idea for the both of you to send Flowers to both your moms as a couple…..You are already together and engaged so you shouldn't feel werid about it. I know both your mom's will be very happy so go for it….
Best wishes….Happy's Mother's Day to Both your Mom's…
Good Luck on your wedding as well………
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